Monday, November 7, 2011

Cambodia is a collectivist society. How might a mental diagnosis contribute to internalized oppression

Cambodia is a collectivist society. How might a mental diagnosis contribute to internalized oppression?
A women who lived through Pol Pot's legacy saw the death of her family and friends. She came to america with much psychiatric symptoms, including pain, depression, poor sleep, weight loss, low energy, nightmares, visions of her parents being killed, etc... She is now irratable and has numerous physical complaints. She was diagnosed with PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder, Single Episode, Moderate. Cambodia is an example of a collectivist society. How might such diagnosis contribute to internalized oppression in this case?
Psychology - 5 Answers
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She might feel "trapped" by the diagnosis, just as she felt trapped in the society she escaped from?
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Being a collectivist society has nothing to do with that. Once a person has gone through that, the effects are pretty much a given. And how can a diagnosis contribute to the internalization of anything? And is "collective society" your diagnosis? All you can do is love the person and care for her as she will let you.
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I don't know what collectivist society is but i can say for certain that without a doubt she would be suffering from PTSD. We really don't know the horror these people went through, the thing is she needs to be allowed to express her mind. We live in a society that is "perpetrator friendly", and it seems like she is basically being told to get over it. If her mind is stuck there, she will never come out of it and she needs help to do that, Meanwhile Pol Pot gets sympathy from a liberal media without having to apologize to the 1.5 million people dead and their families. No wonder she suffers, because that time in history was horrific and tragic and to discount her experience would be injustice.
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Because individuals in collectivist societies tend to perceive diagnoses as (not weakness like individual cultures), but failings and an inability to contribute and fulfill their purpose. Internalizing the failure oppresses the individual.
5 :
Thanks to Pol Pot there are a lot of screwed up people. Cut the head off to kill the snake.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

How much money (in USD) do I need to spend 3 months backpacking Thailand, Cambodia and Laos on a budget

How much money (in USD) do I need to spend 3 months backpacking Thailand, Cambodia and Laos on a budget?
I would like to do some extensive scuba diving and understand I will need lots of $$ for that. Hostel/Guesthouse living is fine for me.
Other - Asia Pacific - 3 Answers
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You could make a rough estimate by referring to your Lonely Planet-type guidebooks, which you've surely purchased or checked out at the library, which list various accommodations by quality and price, so you have some idea. Likely they'll even give you prices for activities such as scuba diving, and list specific companies. Then you'll have your budget and can decide if three months is even doable. And if once you get out there, you'll be sure to bring a credit card for emergencies, and if you find you've gone over budget you can bail out and go home.
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everything in Cambodia is not so expensive, here you can find a hotel rate at 150$ per month, food you can spend 200$ per month, suppose it cost 400$ in cambodia and Laos per month but Thailand is more expensive then this
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Without the scuba diving and if you don't mind living in simple hostels and eating economically, you can get by on $20 - $30 US a day in each of these countries. It depends a lot on where you stay and how much travelling (ie moving from one place to another every few days) you do, as trains/buses etc are cheap but can eat up the cash. Realistically you will get bored of staying in crappy guesthouses and eating the same food all the time, so budget for treating yourself too. You're not travelling to suffer. Thailand is more expensive than Laos and Cambodia for sure, but not much. I wrote an article recently outlining all the different costs you might want to consider for backpacking in Thailand - you can use it as a rule of thumb for Cambodia and Laos too http://travelhappy.info/thailand/how-much-money-do-i-need-for-thailand/ Make sure you bring a VISA credit card that will work in overseas ATMs just in case you need emergency cash. Then just enjoy yourself. Re scuba diving - don't bother diving in Cambodia at Sihanoukville - it's really shitty. Save your money for Thailand. (There is no diving in Laos as it's land locked). Best places to dive in Thailand are the Similan Islands on the west coast - you will need to go on a liveaboard to get out there, spend 4 days diving, costs around $550 US for everything (gear, boat, food etc) - check www.phuket-diving-safaris.com for an example and more info. You can also go day diving from Phuket or Koh Phi Phi to Hin Daeng / Hin Muang and Koh Haa and Koh Bida Nok - these are three of the best sites in Southern Thailand You can also go to Koh Tao in the Gulf of Thailand - diving is not so great but still pretty good - big party fun on Koh Tao too. Day dives will cost you around $80 for 2 dives each day in Phuket , less if you block book several days diving. On Koh Tao it's cheaper - around $60 for 2 dives as the dive sites are nearer to the mainland. A Divemaster course is a good idea if you want to do lots of diving and not pay so much. Email me if you want more info Have fun!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Help, Problem with Cambodian Arranged Marriage

Help, Problem with Cambodian Arranged Marriage?
My boyfriend of 3 years is being forced to marry some random girl in Cambodia. We live in U.S. I hate this, like what the fawk, he doesn;t even know her. I researched about this and i found out that arranged marriages is a tradition and they have to marry who the parents chose. Help me please I love him so much, and i cannot stand this. What do I do?
Other - Cultures & Groups - 2 Answers
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~run away~
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if he is old enough to be independent especially here in America it would be up to him if he really doesn't want to he still have a choice to make his own decision maybe that was just an excuse to let you down easy.